Her strength


‚ÄčLadies should cease to complain that they have been treated unfairly by society but should strive at engaging in activities that would improve herself. Something that will make her useful to herself and thus to society. Her sense of purpose should be heightened not reciprocal to slander she faces for the sake of her sex.

We live in a generation where not physical strength but mental activity grants power. The woman or any other individual is not inferior because of physical weakness and this shouldn’t take anyone for the woman to realize this for her own sake.

By cultivation of mental faculties any individual can reach great heights in society. Solidarity amongst women on protesting the wrongs of society is not enough to empower the individual woman, but she should realize that after all is said and done it is still up to her despite; misogyny, despotism and all there is to do better for herself. The woman is strong.

On empowering the woman

It has always been this way that an individual is responsible for what he becomes in society. It was a prevailing idea that men are more important than women and these was perpetuated by myths that filtered down to everyday life in society.

This phenomenon was tied to the fact that a large part of humanity was guided by ideology. But ideology is seen today by great number of people for what it is.

What can be done for a larger part of women to help emancipate them from voluntary inferiority is to setup means that educate them on seeing their individuality and accepting their role in taking their own selves to greater rank in society. 

Thinking about others.

“No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of a continent.”

           – John Donne 

Cynic way of life can take an individual a long way in society but there is an extra way to achieve on earth which involves thinking about others.

It does not necessarily mean wanting the very best for everyone but being able to consider what other individuals may desire so that one can guide himself to take the best line of action in a social setting.
It goes along with the principle of Softpower force because one has to consider others to make subtle moves that will push others to work in your favour.

Creating joy

“‚ÄčNature conceals her secrets because she is sublime, not because she is a trickster.”

             – Albert Einstein.

When one finds out that most things he holds precious are built on falsehood, an empty sadness comes over such an individual.

But through constant meditation few are exposed to the fact that things that give pleasure to any individual at all have to be created.

Such creations may be made by the individual himself or a power that is above the individual.

It is no easy task to create enduring pleasure and this burden has been taken from many individuals by already existing systems.

These systems are units of society; family, tradition, various cultures, religion.

An individual has to believe in the power of such a unit before deriving pleasure from it; it could be adherents of a religion believing in God, children trusting in there parents & one simply believing that a culture he finds fascinating will flourish.

About joy one can create for himself; individuals can assure themselves, engage in an activity or simply gain pleasure from the turmoils of others.

One who adheres to the force of Softpower knows of the tenderness in the power of this force and will selectively conceal some secrets as to how he would like to achieve joy because it is a fact that what works for one may not work for another.

In creating joy, we have to work with our limits and recognize even if a little of the capacities of others.

In being sublime we can make others whom we are in intercourse with work towards our joy.

Our mindset

Our mindset is very important to our lives in general. It goes along with attitude which has been said to be everything. How we view ourselves is important to how we are going to manage our lives.

It is important to understand how we are and the abilities we posses in order to be able to plan how we live.

People on earth are different. They possess different qualities and are at different understandings on going about daily life.

It is a myth that there is a particular way of life in which one has to align himself in order to reach satisfaction.

We should learn to discard such notions as; there is one that has gone ahead of us and has lived life in the ideal manner and so we must follow his way of lifestyle.

We can have role models, but it is of higher intelligence to pick only certain attributes from mortal man and not be deceived by outward appearance because things are not always as the seem.

We should learn to study man and interpret in him the subtle maneuvers played only as a necessary means of getting along with society.

Softpower force can be interpreted into actions of most individuals even though not consciously planned by such a person which goes to say this force also comes about from inevitable interactions with society. 

 We should know that society being a human construct which is built on “manipulations” deserves other more subtle “maneuvers” to get through.

Female component of Softpower force

Socially;

Speaking about society.

It is probably the most important aspect of trying to understand Softpower force via the female component. 

It can be said that society is made up of culture & culture varies from different locations.

From the western culture which can be said to be the most prevalent in recent history some behaviors have been attributed the female.
It is an assumption we make by saying greater population of the world get their ideas about the female from the west; how she should behave and what can be expected of her.
Overlooking the somewhat inevitable injustice done to the female we strain to pick what we can in trying to understand the half of Softpower force.
With no bias intended it can be said that in history the female is seen as the males surbodinate. It was expected that a woman should acquire sufficient training in order to serve the male.
In our time though this current is flowing away.
What can an individual learn from this social construct?
If an individual is to use the female component of Softpower force, it will lead to an understanding that when one is surbodinate to another individual, or a situation beyond ones control, it does not mean that such an individual is inferior but in such a position as a necessary means of achieving a higher aim.
That been said, it can now somewhat be seen that anyone who should understand Softpower force advocates for gender equality.
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Components of Softpower force

Softpower force is made up of two components

The two create the beautiful power of this force.
The one that is most important to understand in our time is the female component; 

It appears to be the most obscure of the two to understand.
First we will like to assert that the female is powerful;

To understand this subtle force we will like to talk about the female individual. 
Biologically;

In the process of coitus the female is the receiver, which goes along with the fact that in society every individual receives interpretation from other individuals.
One educated in the force of softpower  knows that we can’t and shouldn’t fight off interpretation from others & the fact that people interpret according to their own understanding.
It is not the females disadvantage but to her pleasure to receive during coitus.

Those seeking to harness Softpower force must understand a little part of female psychology in the conventional sense i.e what various literature in past time has made us understand about women. We should not gobble down everything that has been said so far about women but seek to pick from it what is inevitable according to nature.

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